Life Design by VEER
Divorce Navigation & Life Design go hand in hand
Part of navigating through your divorce is creating and putting into place your vision of who you want to be. VEER offers a module on Adjusting to Life After Divorce. VEER can help you re-define, re-imagine, re-build and re-design your life at any stage.
What is Life Design?
We define it as, Life Design is about giving you the tools and resources you need to design and live your very best life. VEER helps our clients navigate the mental, physical, logical and emotional components of their lives. No two people have the same life design. Obstacles, challenges, goals and dreams are truly individual.
Three questions we ask you during your Divorce Navigation & Life Design
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Is your Nest how you want it to be?
Remember the nesting phase? You get to do it again. You get to NEST yourself into your space. Make your wall colors sing to your tune. Get the sheet count thread you are craving. Make sure your home is a place you feel warm, safe and secure.
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Who are your allies?
Life Connections Counseling's Jamie Daniel-Farrell writes,
The recent findings from a 75-year Harvard study on happiness revealed that over our lifespan it is the meaningful, healthy connections that make us happiest in life. They bring us good health and longevity. Often during the marriage, we let go of our friendships. Take the time now to seek out healthy, quality connections. This will be your tribe – supportive, nonjudgmental and available. Connect with them over shared conversations and fun experiences together. The support you offer each other, and the bonds that you form will enhance your life beyond measure. Create your amazing circle of friends and make them relevant and a priority in your life.
At some point in your future you may decide you're ready to bring someone else into your life. You may decide to dip your toes into the dating pool. There are plenty of ways to do this--you can go online to any number of dating sites, you can hire a matchmaker, you can go to Meet-Ups, have friends set you up or even flirt with your barista. They all have one thing in common--YOU! Make sure your next relationship is a healthy one. Don't give up the space you have reclaimed, special time with your friends and family or new work habits.
You have spent precious time designing your life post-divorce.
When you're ready to allow someone else into your sphere as a potential partner look for a person who will join you in your journey and not someone who will have you compromise the person you've become.